Sexual Confidence Man

Sexual confidence is mostly about where your head is. When part of you is standing outside the moment marking your own performance, everything else follows that. This downloadable hypnosis audio brings you back into the room.

Under hypnotic relaxation and direct suggestion, the session works on self consciousness about your body, the fear of not being good enough or not lasting, the memory of a time it did not go well, and the anxious commentary that runs while it is happening. In its place it builds an easy, relaxed, present kind of confidence, the sort that is attractive precisely because it is not performing. Discreet, and yours to keep in your own account.

How it works

It works in two halves. First the recording walks you down into hypnotic relaxation, which is nothing stranger than the drifting state you pass through every night on the way to sleep. Your body settles, your attention narrows, and the part of you that argues with everything gets quiet. Then come the direct suggestions, spoken plainly and repeated, aimed at the habit or the feeling you want changed. Repetition is the whole trick. A suggestion heard once is an idea. The same suggestion heard night after night starts to feel like the truth about you.

How to listen

• Headphones, somewhere quiet, somewhere safe. Sit back or lie down and let it play.
• Bedtime is the best slot. Start it as you settle down for the night.
• If you drift off, let it happen. It will not jolt you awake, and it keeps working while you sleep, so you get a proper night's rest and train your brain at the same time.
• Most people listen every night for two or three weeks, then whenever they want a top up.
• Never while driving, and never while operating machinery.

What you get

• An instant download. You pay, and it is yours in seconds.
• A high quality MP3 that plays on a phone, a tablet, a laptop, anything.
• It lives in your account for good, so you can download it again as often as you like, on any device, forever.
• No subscription, nothing to install, nothing to renew.

Please note

This is self help, not medical treatment. It is never a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis or intervention, and it does not replace anything a doctor has told you to do. Hypnosis is not a magic wand either. It works when you want the change and you listen often. Results vary from one person to the next.